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I am a family man with several grown children and many grandchildren, all living on the Cape. They are the future of everything and I want to leave them a world that I have done my best to improve
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Cape Cod Band Concerts

In the past few years my wife and I have enjoyed summer band concerts on the Cape, sponsored by local banks, chambers of commerce and art foundations. Many summer evenings you can find a band concert going on somewhere on the Cape.  They are often listed in the dennisbandcalendar section of Cape Cod Today. The Register and the Cape Cod Times are good back up sources. Our favorite is the Arts Foundation of Cape Cod and the Citizens Bank Summer Concert Series given from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM on Monday evenings on the Village Green on Route 6A in Dennis.  We arrive early for these 7:00 PM concerts, carry our folding chairs to a strategic place, put a blanket on the ground and settle in.  I've brought a book before and sometimes, when the grandchildren are with us, we pick up a pizza on the way to the band stand and eat supper on the grass.

I have observed many times the unbridled joy which children, particularly pre-school children, appear to bring to these concerts and the magical way they run around band stands, sway to the music, and frolic with each other like young puppies while the band plays. While parents sit on blankets or on beach chairs, children venture out toward the bandstand, do their run around thing, and then crash back to the family unit which sits lovingly observing and supporting them. It is hard to know why they like this.  Perhaps an evening out with friends is what they love, maybe the joy of having an audience watching, perhaps they have some kind of a mystical peek into these Norman Rockwell moments although they may never have heard of this artist or seen a cover of an old Saturday Evening Post.

The people who organize these gatherings are always most gracious and hospitable.  The same cannot be said about the band directors who sometimes seem to want to control the flow of children around them and do things to assure that the focus of the spectators be on the band rather than the kids cavorting in front of the bandstand. They sometimes try to use the microphone to engage the kids, to admonish them to stay with their parents, to make unlistened to rules about when to run and jump and when not to.  Maybe these musicians don't understand kids. Maybe they feel the children compete with their patter between numbers about the year Sousa wrote the last march they played or the fact that Glenn Miller and Johnny Mercer collaborated on some arrangement they are playing.  Maybe they are over-reacting to complaints from patrons.

At any rate, I fear that too many more of these admonishments by band concert performers will keep parents and children away. That will be unfortunate because it will have the effect of removing the most charming aspects of these gatherings from spectators.  Let's keep the kids a focal point of these concerts.  Today's kids running on the green will grow up to be the adults who put together future concerts.

Above photo: the Monday evening band concert on Route 6A in Dennis. cctoday photo.

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07/09/07 @ 10:14 am
capemom [Member] writes:
We went to the Brewster band concert with the kids once and it was a real snore, I am very sorry to say. There is a playground nearby, though. I'm glad we tried it.

I love how New Englanders value tradition, I really do, but the Sousa stuff just really needs to be put out to pasture.

Orleans' concerts are great, they have blues and other kinds of bands.
07/09/07 @ 12:13 pm
susan [Member] writes:
Unbridled children at public events,in public period, are not always a joy.
07/09/07 @ 1:46 pm
Opinionator [Member] writes:
That is the conventional wisdom. With a little effort we can keep them away from most things. Weddings for instance. I've never understood why people would plan a wedding reception and not invite children, who will remember these soirees forever.
07/10/07 @ 8:51 am
buttermilkbabe [Member] writes:
We went to Tihonet Pond for a lovely jazz concert by the Plymouth symphony.. Very child friendly. They invited the children to participate, using percussion instruments. There are two more concerts scheduled this summer!
07/10/07 @ 11:30 am
deepbluesea [Member] writes:
I'm with you, opinionator! It's lovely to see the kids getting their chance at freedom with the family right nearby....the music is nice too, but if it requires perfect stillness to be appreciated, it belongs in a concert hall
07/14/07 @ 11:49 am
bipr [Member] writes:
It's a public park - let kids be kids and enjoy something that doesn't come from a screen. This isn't Symphony Hall, for Heaven's sake.

BTW, I'd vote for blues and jazz at the Brewster concerts, too.
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