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How to Kill Your Husband and Stay Out of Jail, Part 3:
Next-door neighbor who has still not been contacted by Police
By Jeff Blanchard

Dr. Ann Gryboski confessed to shooting her husband of 30 years to DA Michael O'KeefeShe lives within eyesight of the murder scene, and yet she has not been approached by law enforcement to find out what she saw and what she knows about her longtime neighbors.
She wants to come forward, but in the absence of anyone's having taken an official interest in her story, what is she to do?
Her story, told privately and still unheard by law enforcement as recently as 10 days ago, would serve as a counter-balance to the reporting to date.
To date, there has yet to be an independently confirmed finding of fact that Patrick Lancaster ever once beat/abused his wife. What the world can be sure of is that someone shot him dead, and two people survived the slaughter, the mother and one of her two sons, alleged to be the only people there.
Her confession (and facial bruising) apparently ended any probe into the killing, unless you count the grand jury investigation being conducted by the killer's longtime neighbor the district attorney.
Tom Mullen, who lives across the street, spoke for many when he said it was obvious what happened. Even though he never had a clue Lancaster had beaten her before, it was obvious he had this time, on Easter weekend.
And so the killer/doctor is free and will remain so, because no one is going looking for witnesses to a murder that didn't happen. It was a killing in self-defense. Ask anyone except the rest of the neighbors, who apparently did not mix much with the doctor nor her handy, mechanically-inclined husband, despite the various children and dogs involved.
64 days before the murder they took out a $140,000 mortgage loan that was discharged the next dayClues to their life together can be sniffed from the paper trail: a year ago they tussled with the town's historic commission over their application to construct a detached building and a fence, and 64 days before the murder they took out a $140,000 mortgage loan that was discharged the next day.
Remnants of his life remain in the driveway, his pickup truck and three boats, including the one he used for fishing charters. Unfortunately, that's about as far as it goes for his public legacy, what remains in the driveway. Their boys do not at this juncture appear headed in a proud-son direction.
Gagged, in other words, by her former neighbor the district attorneyAs for his siblings, a gag order has been placed on the whole family, according to a story in The Boston Globe that quoted the doctor/killer's brother, Joe, who said Lancaster's siblings are on Ann's side and they were ordered not to talk to anyone besides the district attorney, defense counsel Kevin Reddington and police; gagged, in other words, by her former neighbor the district attorney.
What the neighbor-nurse would say if asked
What the neighbor-nurse would say if asked is that she witnessed a dysfunctional family dynamic that was just the opposite of the composite portrait as it has been painted for the public in the wake of the killing.
The public is told by all manner of testifier, family, friend, patient, lawyer and commentators near and far: here lies a classic case of long-term abused and battered woman, unable to involve the police, unable to cope any longer with the suffering and the physical threats to herself and her children and grandchild.
You beat me while I drove that infant in the back seat. You battered me and abused me and I just couldn't take it any longer. You were so selfish you wouldn't even get drunk and beat me, because you didn't drink. You sat there with your new hip all smug about being the senior lab guy at the maritime academy on Long Island, and your birthday right around the corner, and no, I didn't get you anything. You are rotten and horrible and deserve to die. You useless piece of trash. I have half a mind to shoot you myself. In fact, that's what I'm going to do. Shoot you. Right here. Right now. In front of our son. On Easter, three days before your birthday, in our home, with two from my trusty shooter.
Is that how this went down? C'mon.
I know for a fact that he was no angel. Angels make lousy post-mortem devils.I know for a fact that he was no angel. Angels make lousy post-mortem devils. I heard how he went to a nice old lady's house near Barnstable village center and made a bid on some roof repair work. The bid was high, but the work needed doing. Allegedly he did a lousy job, and his work required its own repair by another contractor. I believe this story, and I believe that he had a horrible, inexorable relationship with his wife.
Really, the lingering question for a sympathetic public is why it took so long for her to shoot him.
Because she confessed straight away, there was never a need to test any other theories about what may have happened that Easter morning at 11 Coach Lane. There was never a need for neighbor/DA to order the police to canvas the neighbors.
Why bother them?
As it is now, with the case in the hands of the neighbor/DA, this is exactly where story ends for Patrick Eugene Lancaster -- born April 11, 1956, died April 8, 2007, father, grandfather, brother, lifetime mariner, war veteran and husband of 30 years to Ann Gryboski, a medical doctor until she confessed to a killing which apparently needed doing.
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Didn't I read somewhere that her husband was handicapped, and always seen in the neighborhood using a walker?
How do you explain the bruises on her face? Just because he was using a walker doesn't mean the guy can't still hit her. Maybe it made him all the more irritable & not in control. I'd like to know where the writer from hyannisnews.com got all that information he based his questions on. If he was so far removed from the story, he's got quite an imagination.
I agree, it is odd that police would not speak to the neighbors about this. But maybe the answer to that lies in what the neighbors said about the other key aspect of this - the possibility of a relationship between Gryboski and O'Keefe prior to Lancaster's death.
Did the neighbors you spoke with say they ever saw Gryboski and O'Keefe together and, if so, what exactly did the neighbors say?
I was on a Grand Jury once, and what they say is true....you can indict a bologna sandwich. And here you have a confession, so, of course it should go to trial, shouldn't it? Doesn't she have to prove it was self-defense?
Not in this case, since it's obvious it was self-defense? I'm really sick of this selective use of the law. If this applies to her, it must then apply to everybody else.
(You know, in a way I kind of like that idea...all you abusers better beware...it's open season on killing you if you ever threaten a woman again)
And then there's that preacher's wife who also killed her husband, and got off very lightly. Are we wising up to abuse, or is something else going on?
It kills me to see all these well-reasoned comments that beg for more information, because the information is there for the gathering, although not on the newsstand near you. What you say is dead-on accurate, if only half-informed, because you live in a place that has no independent source for information besides this and etchings in the sand. Consider: she is the hospital's contact person in the community. The hospital is run by Steve Abbott, and its treasurer is Joel Crowell. The DA's friendly bank, likewise, is run by Joel Crowell and a board of directors that includes Steve Abbott. Say more? Why. It's time to circle the wagons. It's time to bury her visit to the self-same hospital for treatment the day before the killings. It's time to bury the story about the woman who maybe killed her husband in what may have been self-defense. It's time to gag everyone involved and move on, because as long as she is the hospital and he is dead, nothing else matters. Least of all the man who thinks with his little head first.
Just a thought.
I don't think she was abused. I think this was a crime of passion. The husband must have found out about her extra marital activity and went berserk. Too bad for him there isn't such a thing as a "mandated reporter" for infidelity?
If things got that bad, I agree, she should have thrown him out, get a divorce, even pay the guy off, if need be--what's tough is if this guy was as controlling & abusive as indicated by her & the family, maybe she feared he would kill her if she decided to walk out--or continue to stalk her. There are plenty of those cases documented in our courts. Sometimes restraining orders don't work.
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This is unbelievable. So, what is the message to the public at large? Women who get abused can start packin'? I can just hear the guys at the local bars talking about his one.
Will others get off so easy? I'm the first one to defend an abused partner/wife, but no trial seems too easy. Just goes to show you the division of class in the courtroom does make a difference and maybe the allegations of DA knowing the defendant is now confirmed by this surprising outcome. How rare is this? Doesn't seems enough to get dismissed so easily.
Wether you like it or not crusade, we have the best legal system in the world.
You just don't care whom you slander. You just said very clearly that you think Dr. Gryboski committed murder. I hope she finds you and sues you into the stoneage. What is your problem?
I bet:
1. You never met the Dr. or her husband or their family or her neigbors.
2. You have neither legal nor law enforcment training (forensics, crime scene, etc.).
3. You have never met nor spoken with O'Keefe, or Gary Nickerson or anyone else you so casually defame.
Who really cares what you "don't think?"
And, by the way, when you "don't think", what organ do you use for this non-thinking? It is certainly not a human brain.
Crusader, is it a stretch in the least to hear your shrill denunciations had Dr. Gryboski been indicted for murder? Anyone remotely familiar with you knows it is not.
Yes, we should always interview a neighbor who didn't see what happened in that house about what she imagined happened in that house. Give me a break!
Stay Tuned or not!
At least my opinion can't be bought and sold. So what side of the fence will you be on tomorrow?
Pro-Blanchard or Anti-Blanchard? Do you even know where you are, Jack?
At least I stick to my guns, this DA makes his own rules and changes them when it suits him. Before we learned there may be a possibility that MO knows AG, I was all on her side, now I'm not so sure. I believe that what is good for one, should apply to all.
If MO and AG were friends, this case should have been investigated by another DA. It would be a conflict of interest. And capewatchdog, I agree, if she gets her license back (maybe not lost in the first place) she continues her career, making $$$$$ for the hospital, insurance companies, and others on board the gravy train. Plus, who would they get to cover her 2000+ patient practice? That's a large order to fill, and many elderly have complicated medical conditions requiring many hours of care. This way, they get to resume their supposed friendship, community events and $$$$ the doctor has been bringing in.
Ever read the book or see the movie "All the President's Men"? Woodward and Bernstein's biggest skeptic wasn't in the White House, his name was Ben Bradlee - their editor.
Hard as it may be for you to believe, there is actually a middle ground of discourse between your twin poles of gushing cheerleader and toxic vituperation.
You are right! Your opinion can't be "bought or sold" because it's worth sh%#.
Now, in your delusional mind, its about the cash, insurance companies, hospitals and the "gravy train".
You've got to be kidding. Are you that confused that you'll throw anything out there to damage the good people of Cape Cod?
How about this as one of your theories... if the Dr went to jail, then she wouldn't buy gas at the local gas station.... and that would weaken the economy of Venezuela! Pleazzzzzzzze.
That seems to be your answer to anyone that comes on these blogs to challenge your biased views..."you must be crazy, delusional, unemployable, .....", that's why I had many comments on my old blogs and emails telling me what a crock that trial was because I'm so "out there", and are clueless.....HA!....but you can't deny the obvious indicators that are staring you right in the face.
Your DA is under the microscope and don't think it's going to get any easier for the towelman.
It's only a matter of time now.....then we'll see who is crazy, delusional, unemployable, and who will be packin' their bags.
Change the names of the people involved in this case and you have at least an indictment for manslaughter, and a trial.
Krista's baffling interpretation - "This is not a country of laws as much as it is a country of men."
O-kay.
Now you've spoiled it for everyone...who asked you to bring up facts? What the hell is your problem?
27 people testified about what they knew of Dr. Gryboski's history of abuse. they saw her black eyes, her bruises, her abrasions. They witnessed her distress and her nervousness. But we are expected to believe that she should be charged with murder because there is a rumor that she and the DA had a personal relationship of some unspecified type and because police did not interview close neighbors who saw nothing of the alleged crime. O'Keefe is the chief law enforcement officer for the Cape and Islands. At some point don't we pay him to make calls based on his own judgement? As for whether DR. Gryboski should have been charged and gone to trial...she first had to be indicted, and she was not. Now we'll probably start hearing rumors from the nutties about how she treated the grand jury members, or maybe, gee whizz, Michael O'Keef has lived on Cape Cod for deacdes and so have most of the grand jurors...how could this happen? Conspiracy!!
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Soooo many questions again, with very little answers. It appears that Mr. Lancaster had his issues, but DV is not so easy to understand. I wonder too, why she didn't just leave the guy, but some people call it love. She definitely had options, but psychologically may have been stuck, like many women who can't get out of a bad marriage. It would be interesting to hear why the family was told not to speak to anyone except local LE, lawyer & DA. We'd all like to hear why. No preferential treatment--not for friends of the DA, if that is in fact the case in this situation. Very sad ending for all concerned--too bad it could not be prevented. If women are afraid to come forward, society, LE & courts don't make it any easier for them. The stigma remains.
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