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Little People

A father reflects on his daughter's dwarfism--and what it means to be different.
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"Little People": Introduction

Little People: Introduction

In late 2000, when I wrote the proposal for what would eventually become this book, it never occurred to me that one day dwarfism would become a hot topic. Yet as I write this introduction, nearly seven years down the road, people with dwarfism suddenly find themselves in fashion. It is a strange and startling turn of events.

little_people_cover_263Perhaps the most visible symbol is the TLC television series Little People, Big World, a reality show starring the dwarf couple Matt and Amy Roloff and their four kids. This, too, I find rather startling. Matt is a former president of Little People of America, and we worked together for several years when I was the volunteer editor of the organization's website, LPA Online. I interviewed Matt and Amy for this book, and Amy once gave me some advice on finding a clarinet that would be short enough for our daughter to play. I could not have imagined that the Roloffs would be transformed into television stars.

And the Roloffs are only the most visible manifestation of this trend. Because pop culture is so important in shaping our perception of reality, it's not surprising that our changing attitudes toward dwarfism are reflected in the entertainment business. Yes, there are still plenty of stereotyped roles for dwarfs, from Mini-Me to Mini-KISS. But the actor Peter Dinklage and the actress Meredith Eaton, to name the two most prominent examples, have shown that audiences are willing to accept people with dwarfism as filling the same kinds of roles that were formerly reserved for average-size performers.

Yet if dwarfism is more accepted than it has been in the past, its rarity is likely to ensure that people with dwarfism will never quite be considered mainstream. Which brings me back to the beginning--with the birth of our daughter, Rebecca Elizabeth Kennedy, on August 29, 1992. Becky, as you will learn, has achondroplasia, the most common form of dwarfism. It has shaped her life in ways that are both profound (the respiratory virus she caught when she was five months old was life-threatening mainly because of dwarfism-related complications) and subtle (her attention-deficit disorder may be related to her slight hearing loss, a common consequence of achondroplasia).

From its inception, this book had two intended audiences: families affected by dwarfism and other disabilities, whom I hoped could learn from our experiences; and a wider readership that might be interested in the history, culture, and science of a rare and little-understood condition. Unfortunately, my publisher, Rodale, allowed Little People to go out of print within the past couple of years. I hope this free Internet edition might spark enough interest in the book that it will lead to some enterprising publisher's wanting to bring out a paperback edition. Whether that happens or not, at least the book will be available once again.

I have made a slight change to the title. Originally Little People: Learning to See the World Through My Daughter's Eyes, I have renamed it Little People: A Father Reflects on His Daughter's Dwarfism--and What It Means to Be Different. Though more unwieldy, it better reflects what the book is about and what I hope readers will take from it. Other than that, the book is virtually unchanged.

When I finished Little People in the spring of 2003, Becky was just ten years old, finishing up the fourth grade. Today she is a happy, healthy almost-fifteen-year-old, getting ready to begin high school this fall. She's a Girl Scout; she acts in school plays; she took part in her eighth-grade class trip to Washington, a trip I was lucky enough to help chaperone; and she is such an accomplished young writer that she won an award in a Harry Potter essay contest sponsored by a local bookstore. She's doing incredibly well--as well as we ever could have dreamed during those dark days of 1993, when our home was a blur of visiting nurses, beeping monitors, and whooshing oxygen tanks.

Yet Becky's life will continue to be shaped by the fact that, at four feet tall, she is already about as tall as she'll ever be; that her arms and legs are impossibly short; that she sways back and forth when she walks down the street. There's never been a better time to be different; but difference is still something we'd rather keep at a distance if we can.

It's one thing to get to know the Roloff family: after all, they're safely ensconced on the other side of the screen. It's quite another to grant my daughter the same respect and opportunities as anyone else. It's a difficult challenge, and it's one she'll face for the rest of her life.

Dan Kennedy
Danvers, Massachusetts
July 2007

Note: "Little People" will be presented chapter by chapter each Sunday.  A hardcover copy, signed by the author is available for purchase here.

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10/07/07 @ 12:37 pm
susan [Member] writes:
Hi Dan, thanks for sharing your story with us. I for one, knew nothing of dwarfism until I began watching the Roloff's. I am looking forward to the new season. The show is fantastic. Not too many shows can bring laughter and tears in one episode. I normally oppose reality shows, but I applaud Matt and Amy for letting us into their lives, and educating all of us. I get the biggest kick out of Matt and Amy and their opposite views of the farm lol I grew up in a similar situataion after my dad purchased a farm lol The medical complications related to dwarfism were shocking to me, I had no idea. Meredith Eaton is an amazing actress, with quite an impressive background. I was sad to hear of her husbands death. I am happy to hear Becky is doing so well after such a tough start in life. I wish her much happiness and good health. I am purchasing your book, and will pass it on to others. Best wishes to you and your family.
10/11/07 @ 6:02 pm
Monponsett [Member] writes:
I was a five foot college point guard.
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danandbecky
A week after her birth in 1992, Dan Kennedy's firstborn daughter, Rebecca, was diagnosed with achondroplasia, the most common type of dwarfism. Reassured by doctors that Becky would have normal intelligence and a normal life span, Dan and his wife, Barbara, quickly adjusted to the reality of her condition. Not so easy was grasping people's attitudes toward those with physical differences. This book tells Rebecca's story.

Author Dan Kennedy is an award-winning journalist, an assistant professor of journalism at Northeastern University and a media critic at MediaNation. He may be e-mailed here
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