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casualbaby [Member]
In response to: The Doctor Is (Back) In
In response to: The Doctor Is (Back) In
who cares, I still seek for fun on casualpal.com....I am swinger.
Monponsett [Member]
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Keep caring for another month, Numah.... the World Jerk Off Championship isn't til April.
Thumper [Member]
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In response to: If they have the moral high ground... tunnel under it
Depending on who you ask, it's already here.
SM [Member]
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In response to: If they have the moral high ground... tunnel under it
Yeah, yeah, yeah. How soon before we get porn in this site?
No one likes a: SMART ASS [Visitor]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Yeah, I know I am Capri... I am supposed to be hard at work earning a living and making an appointment with a shrink.
Gotta go!
Gotta go!
No one likes a: SMART ASS [Visitor]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Monpo... Don't think I did not notice your insult towards me last evening...
Unfortunatly, Wally did...
So an appropriate reply will not be understood by the masses.
Regardless...
You will pay in spades!
Unfortunatly, Wally did...
So an appropriate reply will not be understood by the masses.
Regardless...
You will pay in spades!
barbaradurkin [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Pardon me, Thumper, I was compelled to hunt Stephen Peckham down to correct his misrepresentation, (to be generous), and had noticed his last comment here.
I enjoy the company of men, and am fortunate to have some great male friends. I like to pick their brains regarding the preferences of their gender and incorporate their advice into my rituals. Men are visual, and love a challenge. I agree with your suggestions regarding dressing for success, and sneaking up on them. We are not so different, men and women, while men really enjoy knowing that they’ve picked a good movie rental, and I don’t understand that phenomenon, but I offer my accolades, still. I’m also a fan of date nights; leaving something to the imagination; and of seduction by palate.
The area of the brain, hypothalamus, that controls hunger for food, also controls sexual appetite. The brain, after all, is the department head in these matters.
I enjoy the company of men, and am fortunate to have some great male friends. I like to pick their brains regarding the preferences of their gender and incorporate their advice into my rituals. Men are visual, and love a challenge. I agree with your suggestions regarding dressing for success, and sneaking up on them. We are not so different, men and women, while men really enjoy knowing that they’ve picked a good movie rental, and I don’t understand that phenomenon, but I offer my accolades, still. I’m also a fan of date nights; leaving something to the imagination; and of seduction by palate.
The area of the brain, hypothalamus, that controls hunger for food, also controls sexual appetite. The brain, after all, is the department head in these matters.
Thumper [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Won't my husband be surprised....
No one likes a: SMART ASS [Visitor]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Why golllleeee... Shucks now... Gut my aaatenentchun now!...
This woman... She's not a she... She's a thinkin' like a HE!
bOOM cHUckaluka BOOM!
This woman... She's not a she... She's a thinkin' like a HE!
bOOM cHUckaluka BOOM!
crusader [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Walter,
Are you talking to me or someone else on the blog?
Are you talking to me or someone else on the blog?
WB [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Thumper, where were you when I needed you???
crusader [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Heather,
Don't lose hope. I think men go through stages like women. Sometimes they are hot, sometimes not.
Certain cultures are more romantic, sexual & intimate, than others.
I agree with Thumper, both men & women should keep their looks in check. But I'm not sure men & women were meant to be with one partner for all eternity. It depends on the individual(s).
A friend's remedy is she has affairs. An answer to her neglectful husband who has refused to continue a sexual/intimate relationship with her.
There are many couples who take this route instead of divorce, & who are less likely to admit it. With some it's biological, others crave excitement or both.
No one likes to hurt their partners, but sometimes one must do what one must do.
I think if more obedient women learned to think & behave like men, we would have more balance & men would think twice before acting badly.
I've learned to think more like a man--& I'm much better for it.
Why should women continue to be victims?
You only live once.
If he won't give it up, kick him to the curb.
Don't lose hope. I think men go through stages like women. Sometimes they are hot, sometimes not.
Certain cultures are more romantic, sexual & intimate, than others.
I agree with Thumper, both men & women should keep their looks in check. But I'm not sure men & women were meant to be with one partner for all eternity. It depends on the individual(s).
A friend's remedy is she has affairs. An answer to her neglectful husband who has refused to continue a sexual/intimate relationship with her.
There are many couples who take this route instead of divorce, & who are less likely to admit it. With some it's biological, others crave excitement or both.
No one likes to hurt their partners, but sometimes one must do what one must do.
I think if more obedient women learned to think & behave like men, we would have more balance & men would think twice before acting badly.
I've learned to think more like a man--& I'm much better for it.
Why should women continue to be victims?
You only live once.
If he won't give it up, kick him to the curb.
Dennis [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
ForGetAboutItHeather -
As I've told others a million times, "love is the illusion that one man is different than another."
As I've told others a million times, "love is the illusion that one man is different than another."
Sacreblu [Member]
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
In response to: "My husband doesn't even notice me anymore"
Dear Thumper - I feel a cold chill running down my spine now that you have been unleashed on our unsuspecting and unwashed masses
;>)
Keep up the BAD work!
;>)
Keep up the BAD work!
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