CapeCodToday Blog Chowder

capemom,
her kids are grown men in their 20s... lets look at the facts please
he's dead, lets start their, she told police she pulled trigger, ... facts, not emotion please, believe it or not, women murder men all the time, even popular ones, did her son punch her in the face? we don't know... she's charged with murder and she'll say anything, as most defendants do... my ex said stuff and she got caught lyng thank god bcause i would have never seen my child again... facts,not gossip please!

please escuse my writing , i work with my hands, my ex was a popular educated school teacher... thank god the court saw eventualy what she was capible of... very violent, very abusive... my daughter is now safe... if she had, id be dead and she would walk free... she'd make something up... let the courts deside... i feel bad for lancaster 51, why did she shoot him? do you really know?

god bless
can men and women get away from the polarized reality of one gender always blaming the other?

my heart bleads for this family... but there's much more to the story that will come out as the prosecution makes it case... Margot- it's women who will be heard and offer balance in the fact tha abuse does not have a gender, men are do not have a voice, think about it please... cops, judges, citizens don't think that way yet.... Margot, as a writer you need to consider the facts, please!

corrction... I was one of the first male DV male victims to be refered to independence house... happens more than you know... when i see a male domestic victim gunned down on easter i think of my exwife, who by the way, everyone loved... margot are you agsinst DV, or are you just against DV agaisnt women? please tell me your against violence, period... i can gaurantee lancaster looks much worse today than his killer! lets see what the facts are that led to her being charged with murder.
again i understand your outrage, do you understand mine?

Margot-
I enjoy your blog... my mom was a DV victim, and, a male was one of the first DV victims at Independence House, my exwife hit and threw things... including my daughter.... I've studied this case and the facts... Mr. Lancaster is the first domestic murder on the cape this year... gryboski is an alleged victim... she is being charged with murder as she should be at this point... she is building a defense and has alot of explaining to do... by the way, women are not the weaker sex and the are certainly capible of murder... as are men, obviously... a man is dead... cape cod hospipital is taking collections for a popular doctor... is this a popularity contest or a mureder investigation? my exwife was more popular and outgoing than i, but a judge saw through her and that's why i'm raising my daughter... i like u but i think you're saying somehting that is convienant and politically correct... i'm sure glad justice is blind- i hope... lancaster will never be able to tell his story- he's this year's first domestic murder victim... good luck margot